Wednesday, December 3, 2014

special days & grand traditions



I've been enjoying Christmas in an extra magical way this year. I think it's because we got to decorate our house for the very first time AND we splurged for an 8 and a half foot Christmas tree. In all the fun and decorating, I wonder what it will look like when there's kids in the mix. I think about kids a lot lately. Not out of pressure, but out of anticipation. Out of: how will I do it? What will they look like? How many will there be? What will make up their favorite memories?

There are a lot of things I don't know about how our parenting will look and feel. In fact, I don't know just about everything short of I will be a mom and Jason a dad. But, one thing I do know we both hold dear from our own childhoods and want to instill in our children is the love of tradition and celebration. The traditions that have been passed down to me, the one's we've started as Team Thomas, and the one's I can't wait to share with our offspring.

The other day I ran across this anti-holiday post from Kirsten Howerton (who I almost always love and laugh with). I tried to be open minded about her feelings and acknowledge the pressure of keeping up with the Pinterest moms while breaking out of the consumer cycle. But I couldn't help wondering what it feels like to wish to skip out on ridiculous celebration (says the girl who celebrated her birthday for a month).

Being 25, I grew up pre-Pinterest, before the blogosphere, when marketing to consumers was still in its baby stages. Yes, nowadays there's a madness to all the holidays and subsequent celebratory expectations, but you, as the adult and parent, are responsible for discussing and explaining why you're partaking in the celebration -or, oppositely, why you aren't.

I'm a celebratory being. My spirit loves dressing in whatever colors the day or season beg (all of which I already have in my closet), toasting to the festivities, and cheering "Hip Hip Hooray I LOVE This Day!" as off key as manageable from the very bottom of my itty, bitty lungs.

I was raised in a home where cake was cherish deeply and consumed often. As a family we marked special occasions with dinners and desserts, wine and Shirley Temples, later bedtimes and special table settings. And I want the same for my kids. I imagine the days of celebratory education already. Days where I can say: we're doing this because it's a special day. This day is special because of these very reasons and because you are special to me I want to share in it together.

For Valentine's we will celebrate love. The love of God, of our family, that fills our home. We will share the ways in which we love ourselves and one another. Our hearts will be felt, celebrated, understood as beating by His goodness. We will commune around a candlelit table covered in breakfast food because that's just what happens on Valentine's Day says my childhood.

On March 17th, St. Patrick's Day, we will wear green, drink bubbly beverages (beer for the big people, cider for the little), talk about how Grandpa Peter loved this day so. We will appreciate the beautiful prayers of St. Patrick, enjoy (or not) corned beef and cabbage, talk about green things, lucky charms, what we'd do with a pot of gold coins.

The Fourth of July will always contain a plethora of red, white, and blue. It'll be full of all things stars and stripes, watermelon, and grilled hamburgers. We'll snuggle up in a light blanket atop the hill above my mom's home and watch the fireworks bang and boom while we oooh and aaah all the while singing along to "America the Beautiful" and "God Bless America".

December, oh my dear month of Advent, will be a month of celebration and anticipation of Christ's birthday. It'll be wrought with family, cake, festive decor, an Elf making trouble throughout our house. We will spend time laughing deeply, sharing wholly, celebrating honestly. Through the art of celebration, we can talk about the significance of the season, the meaning -spiritual and emotional- behind traditions, share our hopes and dreams and thanks.

Notice, those celebrations don't require gifts. Many of ours didn't. In fact, they didn't require anything but a smile on your face and a stomach hungry for cake. Just as my parents taught me, it isn't anyone else's responsibility to teach my children how or when to celebrate. It is mine. As their parent, as their teacher of life and home and family, as a lover of celebration, I want them to know what it means to partake in the jubilee.

So, excuse me as I finish pinning leprechaun traps and Elf on the Shelf ideas while I text my brother about that one time we touched the Elf and our baby brother thought we'd frozen his wings forever.
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What are your favorite traditions for the holidays? 
(you are not limited to Christmas, of course)

29 comments:

  1. I love holidays! My family always tried to make them special when I was a kid. Even it if was something really simple. I remember for Valentine's Day my mom lies to give my sister and I a little something each year, which, when I was in jr high and high school it was nice to have a reminder that Valentine's Day wasn't just about having a date. And we love Christmas in our house! I love your huge tree by the way. My grandparents had a massive 9ft tree and it was one of my favorite things.

    Also, any bible reading recommendations for Advent? I'm not finding anything that catches my eye this year.

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  2. I've honestly felt an emptiness surrounding holidays for many years. My parents are both remarried + divorced + remarried and one divorced again so the holidays were never a constant thing for me. I was always shuffled between homes and families. I look forward to the day where we have children of our own and we can provide them with something constant. Something like you've described where they will know they can always count on us to celebrate even the little wins in a way that is predictable and stable.

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  3. Allie @ AllieologyDecember 3, 2014 at 7:22 AM

    I couldn't agree with you more! Growing up, holidays and birthdays were always SO special and I'm really happy that my mom and dad made it that way. I think it's important to teach children that while everyday is special, there are certain days thorughout the year that are just a little more special and we get to celebrate them in a fun way. Plus, if you're gonna turn down cake... I don't think I can trust you!

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  4. We are holiday lovers at our house. I always dread the side-eye I will get when our Elf comes to visit, but my girls are SO INTO IT. I can't imagine denying them the magic of Christmas for any reason, but especially not because "they" say we should. I think we do a pretty good job of focusing on family and faith while still enjoying the magic and gift-giving of the holiday season!

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  5. I love traditions and making the day special! My mom was always very into holidays and birthdays and making them special, so it's important to me to do the same!

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  6. Goodness me, I am going to go CRAZY with all the little traditions with my littles. I am constantly at odds with myself because I don't want to give in to the massive consumerist plague that seems to come over the holiday season, but Elf on the Shelf- hell yeah, I'll be doing that. Like your family, my Mom made every occasion magical for us. Were we spoiled? Maybe a little. But our childhood was so full of innocence and fun- I truly hope I can create that same environment for my own kids :)

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  7. Katie @ A Beautiful Little AdvDecember 3, 2014 at 9:37 AM

    I couldn't agree more. I always find ways to celebrate...and not just for the excuse to eat cake and drink champagne :) It's a way to mark moments in life, to pause and say, "things are pretty awesome, aren't they?" It's a way to share moments, memories, and feelings of gratitude. Christmas is the King of these celebrations, even the smallest celebrations are my favorites, and none of them involve gifts.

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  8. My favorite holiday traditions are ALL OF THEM. Whatever anyone is celebrating, I'm down. And I love creating new traditions with Andy, and just like you, dreaming about what our traditions will look like when there are baby Hesses in the picture. I'm not sure about the elf thing though, it seems like a lot of work. Could you just go ahead and have a baby before me and figure that whole thing out? I'll just follow your lead there. Kgreatthanks. ;)

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  9. This is great. Love the heart by this. :)

    Chelsea
    // heartnatured.com

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  10. Birthdays and Christmas were two major life celebrations. Birthdays were celebrated the whole week, starting with any breakfast you wanted and ending with cake and love and presents and hopes for the next birthday to come immediately. So, pin on, you celebrator, pin on.

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  11. Oh, I just love this so much! Celebration and traditions were also a huge part of my upbringing (ESPECIALLY at Christmas) and while presents were definitely a big deal for Christmas in our house, the biggest thing that stands out in my memories is the family. Christmas baking weekends with all of my sisters (there are 4 of us) and their families, Easter egg hunts in the back yard, and 4th of July barbecues. I get the consumerism thing, but I think there's a real danger of over-correcting and losing something really special. Beautiful post.
    Johanna
    http://www.ourjoyfulhome.com

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  13. Great post my friend - so many people are quick to jump on the "don't-kee-up-with-the-Jones/Pinterest" bandwagon but often the judgement is incorrect and based on very little facts. Many of these fun traditions have been passed on for years and generations, families and many children - it has nothing to do with what the neighbours or Pinterest are doing.


    Oh girl, when kiddies are involved - the fun and traditions are so much bigger and better and more exciting. The joy and happiness that is so evident on their little cherub faces is PRICELESS!!
    x

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  14. I am in love with holiday traditions! Each year we all go to Hallmark and get a new ornament for the tree and decorate the tree. We also always see the same school play every year but I love those memories! I say go for it :)

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  15. I celebrate anything and everything. My friends will quickly tell you that I celebrate all of their birthdays as if it's a national holiday. I just believe in celebrating. Life is too short to let little moments slip by, and even shorter to not celebrate ALL the big ones too. Champagne is always necessary, of course. I hope my one-day children learn how to celebrate all the moments of life too...my mom always made the every day seem fantastic with fun treats or games and celebrations, never spending much money, but always letting us know how precious time is and how we should cherish each other and each day that the Lord gives us. And that's how I live my life now. Celebrations keep life sparkling.

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  17. Um, I want to celebrate holidays with your family.

    I read St. Patrick's autobiography last winter and found it really interesting. You would like it! It's a quick read.

    Also, I can't wait to see your Elf on the Shelf wreaking havoc throughout the Thomas home.

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  21. I can very much relate to what you said, with being a "celebratory being." After reading her post, I didn't come away thinking any ill of holiday and celebrations, just school. But that's because I already disliked school. I was not made for schools, haha. Angel and I often talk about our future with our children, and I think it's going to be an awesome mix of many traditions. It's funny, I have absolutely no memories associated with St. Patrick's Day though Irish is my 2nd strongest bloodline after Dutch. However, Chinese New Year has been the biggest holiday of the year for the last decade of my life, we hope to live in Asia for the rest of our lives, and I certainly intend to implement that...along with "national holidays" that involved no schoolwork whatsoever on each and every birthday (what my parents always did) and Angel has a fair number of traditions he likes too! It's funny in a cross-cultural family what comes up..we were even recently talking about quinceaneras, that's definitely not something I ever envisioned being a part of my family's celebrations!

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    Am
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